The Dash: Making a Difference With Your Life

I read a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning... to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth
And spoke of the following date with tears.
But he said what mattered most of all...
Was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents
All the time that she spent alive on earth.
And only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not how much we own;
The cars... the house... the cash...

What matters is how we live and love...
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard;
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real...
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives...
Like we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect
And more often wear a smile...
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So when your eulogy is being read
With your life's actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?