Never Be

It is really hard
when you fall in love
with someone who
doesn’t even give a damn on you…
who you thought
he was for real…
though as friends
you like it to be.
will it really matter
if you can’t win me over
in your game,
I say?
skeptic I maybe.
but LOVE
will never be
the kind of game
I want to play.

Ways To Live Your Life

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but with the man who loves you more.

The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. To let go of someone does not mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance, not expecting anything in return. Be careful though, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship, we start our desperate attempts to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. You do not have to forget someone you love.

What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.

Do not let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.

If you lose love, it does not mean that you failed love. Cry if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you with. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.

Find a Guy

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

Who calls you back when you hang up on him.

Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.

Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."

75 Lessons that MUST be Learned in Relationships

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a
man's character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.
11. Don't settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like
that?
14. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
15. Honorable men take care of their business
and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.
18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince.
20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
23. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he just isn't
that interested.
24. Be honest and upfront.
25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.
26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the
situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on).
27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
28. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of them...flee.
29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not willing to follow
himself -- double-standard.
31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!
34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see.
35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away
and if you feel he's lying, let him go.
36. Actions speak louder than words.
37. Never let a man define who you are.
38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that.
39. Never borrow someone else's man.
40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him.
42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.
43. Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the No.1 person in your life.
44. Love is a verb ...
45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone
unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
47. All men are NOT dogs.
48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.
50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
51. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
52. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complementary...not supplementary.
53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.
55. Never become your man's "therapist".
56. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.
57. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end
it - but it takes two to make it work.
58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you
there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.
59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted.
60. Give him his space...let him go out with his boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you, You cant force a man to hang out with you.
61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't.
62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
63. Never move into his mother's house.
64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone.
65. Never co-sign for a man.
66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.
67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
69. When it's time to let go; let go.
70. Good men should be treated like good men.
71. Don't play games.
72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
74. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs,
personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
75. Never date a guy who wears color contact lens.

What does your name mean?

found this at Samantha's Friendster Blog... yet i find this real crazy and fun!

M - Success comes easily to you.
I - You get hyper easily.
A - damn good kisser

C - You're wild 'n crazy
A - damn good kisser
R - Fuckin sexy.
M - Success comes easily to you.
E - You are nice.
L - You live to have fun.

W - You are very broad minded.
O - Great In The Bed!
N - You are absolutly beautiful
G - You never let people tell you what to do.

hmmm?..
Success comes easily to me?? don't want success this early!!! so tiring!!!
I get hyper easily?? not always..
uh me?.. a damn good kisser??
I'm wild 'n crazy?? just leave crazy cuz i'm not that wild..
Fuckin sexy?? I guess i'm a f***** nevermind..
Me? Nice? of course i am.. way mu palag!
I live to have fun?? gotta do what i have to do.. and that is to have fun!
Me?? very broad minded?
Great In The Bed??
Oh yeah! I'm absolutely beautiful.. pung pa sakong mama!
Never let people tell me what to do? it depends.. i'm of my boss but i sometimes.. just kiddin..!

Check below to see what your name means...

A - damn good kisser
B - Good all around person
C - You're wild 'n crazy
D - You have one of the best personalities ever
E - You are nice .
F - People totally adore you
G - You never let people tell you what to do.
H - You have a very good personality and looks.
I - You get hyper easily.
J - Everyone loves you.
K - You like to try new things
L - You live to have fun.
M - Success comes easily to you.
N - You are absolutly beautiful
O - Great In The Bed!
P - You are popular with all types of people.
Q - You are a hypocrite.
R - Fuckin sexy.
D - You have one of the best personalities ever
S - You are easy to fall in love with.
T - You're loyal to those you love
U - You really like to chill.
V - You are not judgemental.
W - You are very broad minded.
X - You never let ppl tell u wat to do
Y - One of the best bfs/gfs anyone could ask for
Z - Your a loving person

I've Learned

...that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

...that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
The same goes for true love.

...that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

...that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

...that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down,
will be the ones to help you get back up.

...that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them,
and less to do with how many years you have lived.

...that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

...that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

...that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.

...that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

...that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

...that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

...that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

...that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

...that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

...that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

...that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

...that learning to forgive takes practice.

...that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

...that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.

...that regardless of your relationship with your parents,
you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.

...that making a "living" is not the same thing as "making" a life.

...that life sometimes gives you a second chance.

...that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands;
you need to be able to throw some things back.

...that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.

...that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.

...that every day you should reach out and touch someone.
People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.

...that I still have a lot to learn.

...that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel.

I've Learned -- As I Walk Through Life

...that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

...that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

...that you can keep going long after you can't.

...that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.

...that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

...that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

...that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing
and have the best time.

...that sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

...that just because someone doesn't love you
the way you want them to
doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

...that no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.

...that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others,
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

...that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other.

...that two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.

I've Learned -- As I Mature

...that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in.

...that no matter how much I care,
some people are just assholes.

...that it takes years to build up trust,
and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.

...that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you'd better have a big willy or huge boobs.

...that you shouldn't compare yourself to others --
they are more screwed up than you think.

...that you can keep vomiting
long after you think you're finished.

...that we are responsible for what we do,
unless we are celebrities.

...that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first,
the passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take its place!

...that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon
and all the less important ones just never go away.

Be Thankful

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don't know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because it means you've made a difference.

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.

A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.

Ally McBeal...

If you see me walking the road with someone else,
It's not because I like his company.
It’s because you're not brave enough to walk beside me.
If you hear me talking about him all the time,
It’s not because he pleases me.
It’s because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat.
If you feel me falling with someone new,
It’s not because I love him.
It’s because you're not there to catch me if I fall.
If you feel lost, I too am nowhere,
I too don't know where the road is going.
Are we gonna cross each other's path
Or just completely turn around?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound?
Don't let me walk with him.
It’s you I want to walk with.
Don't let me talk of him.
It’s you I want to talk with.
Don't let me fall for him.
It’s you I want to fall in love with.

The answer:

When you thought I wasn't brave enough to walk beside you,
I was behind you every step of the way.
Still filled with awe because of the beauty that stands before me.
When you thought I was too deaf to hear your heartbeat,
I didn't want to assume anything
And I was afraid to lose our friendship.
When you thought I wasn't there to catch you,
It was because you never gave me the chance.
You never reached the bottom,
You’ve already grabbed a branch.
If you feel like you are nowhere, I too am lost.
I too don't know where the road is going.
Are we just going to turn around,
Or are we gonna cross each other's path?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound?
Don't let me walk alone.
I want to walk by your side.
Don't let me talk of something else.
It’s you I want to talk with.
Don't let me fall for someone else.
It’s you I want to fall in love with.

"There are some people who meet that somebody that they can never stop loving, no matter how hard they try. I wouldn't expect you to understand that, or even believe it, but trust me, there are some love that don't go away. And maybe that makes them crazy, but we should all be lucky to end up with that somebody who has a little of that insanity. Somebody who never lets go. Somebody who cherishes you forever."

"No one is perfect until you fall in love with them"

Three Things You Ought To Know

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON...
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrong doing on your part,
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON...
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real!
But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but…
friendship is clairvoyant.

Three Meaningful Words

There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the saying of just three words. When spoken or conveyed, these statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

I'll be there.

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

I miss you.

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

I respect you.

Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

Maybe you're right.

This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe your right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

Please forgive me.

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I thank you.

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

Count on me.

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."

Let me help.

The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I understand you.

People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any relationship.

Go for it.

We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

I love you.

Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words.

"I love you..."

Life

Life isn't about going back, it's about going forward. Yes, there are times in our life that we wish we could relive. But, if we already lived them perfectly, why live them again? The adventure of life is that there's always something new. New challenges, new experiences. A fun game is a game that gets harder as it goes. So it is with life.

Inspiring message from: Brader Eli

A to Z of Love

Age does not protect you from love but love to some extent protects you from age.

Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.

Choose the one who loves you, and not whom you love.

Don't forget to love yourself.

Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.

For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks; the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.

Gravitation can not be held responsible for people falling in love.

He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes.

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

Just three words, "I Love You" , but they mean world to everybody.

Kindness is love in disguise.

Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.

Mature love says: "I need you because I love you." Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."

Nothing can be as beautiful as falling in Love.

Offerings of love should be made without any expectations.

Precious possessions that a man can ever have, is a woman's heart.

Quotes are peoples way to express their experience of love.

Rose is the symbol of love.

Set me as a seal upon thy heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death.

There is only one happiness in life, to love and to be loved.

Usually a man in love cannot be harsh.

Victory of a heart is the most priced possession.

Within you, I lose myself; Without you, I find myself, searching to be lost again.

X-ray can not reveal a love struck heart.

Yes, is the ultimate word for love.

Zodiac signs are insignificant when it comes to love.

Quotes to Ponder On..

The secret to a happy life is lowered expectations.

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Love may be blind but marriage is a real eye-opener!

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Give her two red roses, each with a note.
The first note says " For the woman I love" and
the second, " For my best friend."

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Don't find love, let love find you.
That's why it's called falling in love,
because you don't force yourself to fall,
you just fall.

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It doesn't take a reason to love someone,
but it does to like someone.
You don't love someone because you want to,
you love someone because you are destined too.
It's because you fall in Love with them,
that you then try to find a reason,
but you always come up with the answer..., No reason!

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Happiness is a very subjective factor in one's life.
Being happy doesn't depend on achieving what you want,
but rather making the best out of what is given.
Life isn't fair, it never was..
The only thing that can make you completely happy is contentment.
Be contented on what you have,
but be sure to aim high and never stop believing you can do better everytime.
But if all else fails,
don't forget that an ordinary you has an extraordinary God to back you up..!

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We grow old and suddenly want to hurry things.
Dont commit when you're not ready.
Dont keep others waiting endlessly.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Dont bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.
To keep yourself warm, buy a jacket.
In the long run, it will be less complicated and less costly.
Take care of yourself.
Dont wait for someone to take care of you.
No one completes you, except you!

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Do you believe in this quote?...

If two past lovers remain friends,

it's either they are still in love

or

they never were..

Beauty of a Woman

The beauty of a woman
is not in the clothes whe wears,
the figure that she carries
or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman
must be seen in her eyes,
because that is the doorway to her heart,
the place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman
is not in a facial mole,
but true beauty in a woman
is reflected in her soul.

It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
the passion that she shows.
and the beauty of a woman
with passing years...only grows!

Echoes of the Heart

"There's only one risk in life worth taking. It is the risk of getting hurt when you fall in love, 'coz experiencing the joy of being loved is worth all the pain..."

Sometimes we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes of our hearts. We all fall in love and there are times when we love so much that we lose ourselves in our own emotions. More often than that, we wonder why there are love that grows and love that grows cold. We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong. But it has its own reasons. Love will always be as it always has been... silent, mysterious and deeply profound.

Many of us believe that love is forever, that love never dies, only to be distinguished in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is only a gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands for we may never find the strength to let it go when it decides to leave. We too should only embrace its warmth and glow while it last and then freely open our eyes when it's time to say goodbye.

When we fall in love with someone, we don't want that feeling to end for it's everything we are, everything that we wanted to be. We pray that love will stay and grow in our hearts. But if it doesn't, then we should never let our lives be taken by it, for life should not end where heartaches begin.

There's always a reason why we have to move on. When we have to say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever, let us not wave our hands with a heavy heart. For love will have to set its wings free and find the place where it belongs. We may have lost it but then again, when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever.

Then we'll know that it has never left us, for the good we have become because of love will always stay. It will always be there reminding us that we should be thankful and happy, not because we have lost love. But because, for ones in our lives, that feeling lived in our hearts and made us happy.

Dear Lord

Every single evening
As I'm lying here in bed,
This tiny little Prayer
Keeps running through my head.

God bless all my family
Wherever they may be,
Keep them warm and safe from harm
For they're so close to me.

And God, there is one more thing
I wish that you could do,
Hope you don't mind me asking
Please bless my computer too.

Now I know that it's unusual
To Bless a motherboard,
But listen just a second
While I explain it to you, Lord.

You see that little metal box
Holds more than odds and ends,
Inside those small compartments
Rest so many of my friends.

I know so much about them
By the kindness that they give,
And this little scrap of metal
Takes me in to where they live.

By faith is how I know them
Much the same as you,
We share in what life brings us
And from that our friendships grew.

Please take an extra minute
From your duties up above,
To bless those in my address book
That's filled with so much love.

Wherever else this prayer may reach
To each and every friend,
Bless each e-mail inbox
And each person who hits send.

When you update your Heavenly list
On your own CD-ROM,
Bless everyone who says this prayer
Sent up to GOD.com.

Amen.

To forget you, must i?

We've shared nothing,
yet a lot.

You must have given me something,
yet did not.

I should have hated you,
yet did not.

So little i have cared for you,
yet a lot.

Vaguely, you've cared
yet you've not.

So few memories we've shared
yet a lot.

I should be forgetting you,
yet i'm missing you a lot!

So i go on loving you...
yet i must not.

Anyway

People are often unreasonable,
Illogical, and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind,
People may accuse you of selfish,
Ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful,
You will win some false friends
And some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank,
People may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building,
Someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness,
They may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today,
People will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have,
And it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

Courtesy of Brader Eli

It's kind of funny
When you think about it
The people that walk in your heart
The ones that stay
The ones that go
Some encounters are so quick
And others stay for awhile
The impact may be small
So that you don't even notice a difference
But others you can't forget
Because they changed your direction on the road
There's ones that you may welcome
And hope they make a home
There's ones that make holes
But from that you learn and grow
From my life what I have gathered
Is that there are two people I will know
Ones that stay
And ones that go
So, my heart will remain open
And what you choose is up to you

Dear Dairy

This is my 7th day in my new office. The first two days were so boring because I had to read some tutorials. The following 5 days were very stressful... Challenging in a way that I’m not certain of the things that I’m supposed to do. Glad that many people were able to help me out and led me to the right path. This is gonna be one tough ride for me and for the days to come. God help me and I beg you to give me strength, wisdom, and perseverance. I know, in time, I’ll be getting used to this kind of life and work. I’m wishing, hoping, and praying that I may attain success in my project and for the projects that are to come my way. Good luck to me!

Untitled Piece

i saw my ex crush today
he seem to look okay
but seeing him drives me insane
knowing that he's happy
while im in pain

thinking of our past
is like thinking of some trash
a thing that was once new
full of spark and glee
that ended up in such tragedy

my heart is now bleeding
from this endless weeping
how i wish that i wont keep on screaming
till the end from the beginning
this led my life with no meaning

Birthday Bash

Today is my birthday and I feel so blessed that so many people remembered my day! Thank you everyone for making this birthday of mine special as always.. Even though I spent my birthday far away from you, I know deep inside that you're all beside me always.. Thank's for always being there for me! Please do know that I'll do the same.. I just wouldn't mention names cuz I believe you know who you are. I love you all and I hope you'll all stay the same..!